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Why I Chose To Take The 23andMe DNA Test 

I was 14 when I first felt the embarrassment of not knowing “who I was”. I was at boarding school in French class, studying vocabulary and familial nouns (sister, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, etc). Our assignment was to draw a family tree and extend it as far back as possible, applying the appropriate nouns and ages of our family members to present to the class. 

I thought of the family long gone. Of family, I never knew.

Why didn’t I know more? Why didn’t I ask more questions? Before boarding school, in the South Bronx, all I knew was that I was Puerto Rican. Forget about the fact that I wasn’t actually born in Puerto Rico. The American way was to be told you’re everything but an American. 

It wasn’t until I reached 8th grade that a social studies teacher scolded my class on “Present Your Flag” day and reminded us that no one was 100% anything. What was I, then? Who was I?

Back at my high school dorm room, preparing for my French assignment, I remember crying as I drew my family tree. 

Each branch stemmed to hold names of the family either far away or deceased. I realized I felt ashamed to share my story.

I felt embarrassed because I thought my story wasn’t good enough. 

If it wasn’t for my fear of getting a bad grade I wouldn’t have presented the project at all. But I did. I mustered up the courage to share my incomplete story in broken French.

I described all that was special about my known family members, their (guessed) ages, and fun facts about them. I focused on the information I did know and was surprised to learn that the wealthy or family-oriented students in my class also had incomplete stories. Even my teacher. 

I wasn’t alone.

Years passed and every journey in my adult life has led me to discover another part of my lineage. From my improving my Spanish to discovering Belizian roots, Italian and Spanish ancestry, and even the random Mexican cousin, I’ve uncovered so much about my family history just by traveling.

As a Latina, American, and person of color, I know that family trees, DNA, and the myriad of ancestral complexities that are woven into me will never be 100% revealed, but knowing that many people are on a similar journey makes it all the more exciting. 

When Alex’s parents bought me the 23andMe DNA ancestry kit for my birthday in August, I knew it was time to find out more. 

Receiving My 23andMe DNA Results

It took a whole two weeks for me to even open the box because I suddenly became nervous. The $99 kit itself was quite straightforward (I’ll add a link to a detailed Q&A post here with a video soon) but did provide very detailed instructions. 

Even though my account said it’d take about 8 weeks to get my results, I received it within 4 weeks after shipping. I was initially going to record my reaction but then decided against it because the email came in the middle of the night while I was in bed — I definitely wasn’t going to wait until the morning to read it!

The results show that I am:

  • 43.6% European
  • 39.9% Sub-Saharan African
  • 7.4% East Asian & Native American
  • 1% Middle Eastern & North African
  • 8.1% Unassigned

My first reaction was being shocked at how high the European percentage was. I consider my skin tone much darker than many Puerto Ricans and thought for sure I was a solid 75%+ African. Naturally, I yelled: “I’m WHITE!?” and then laughed hysterically. Goes to show skin color doesn’t tell a whole story…

2020 UPDATE: I’m not majority European anymore! As I figured, the numbers have changed and my new breakdown is

  • 44.1% Sub-Saharan African
  • 39.7% European
  • 6.9% East Asian & Native American
  • 3.3% Middle Eastern & North African
  • 5.9% Unassigned

Interesting facts:

  • Much of my European makeup is Southern European (which makes sense, being Puerto Rican): which includes Iberia (Spain/Portugal), Italy, the Balkan peninsulas, etc. Basically Mediterranean.
  • Most of my African is West African (likely slave trade) and occurred 2-4 generations ago
  • East Asian and Native Americans share genetic history so this makeup is probably from my Taino lineage (guessing here)
  • 8.1% unassigned has confirmed my assumption that I am indeed part alien
  • I found no family connected to my DNA on 23andMe (EDIT: I had to fill out additional surveys to activate this and have so far found distant cousins but did not contact anyone)

How I Feel About My DNA Results

This was so freaking cool! While it didn’t give me as much detail about the African and Native parts of me, I know that much of their research and results are based on data collection from participant DNA.

Many black and brown people are skeptical of these tests (for good reason: it is not like we weren’t experimented on for hundreds of years for the good of science), but if they don’t participate, the results will continue to remain vague.

I do wonder if the Ancestry DNA test would show similar results and if I will connect with any closer family. 

What do you think? Were you surprised?

After my initial shock and upon further consideration, I can say that the ancestral genetic makeup is pretty on par with what makes many of today’s Puerto Ricans. The percentages may differ greatly, yes, but a mixture of European, African, and/or Native American is probably a good guess.  

Would you try 23andMe? Send your questions and comments!

I know you might have a lot of questions. I recorded myself taking the (spit) test and took lots of screenshots and photos along the way.

The next post in this 23andMe DNA series will share all the details of how the saliva collection/registration process works and what you get for your purchase. I haven’t written it yet but will update this post when I do.

Please send me any questions (in the comments below, on Facebook, or via email) so I can be sure to answer them all. 

xx O.

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10 Comments

  1. Loved this post! I had some interesting discoveries as well as a South American. I knew about 7 generations back on my mother’s side but my dad’s was a mystery after grandparents and found out my african roots were closer than I thought: in the last 180 years. I have 3.5 % unassigned and thought the same thing: alien LOL gracias! Vanessa

    1. LOL yay aliens! It is so interesting to learn about the mysteries of our lineage. Thanks reading and for sharing your story! xx

  2. So sorry I have to retract what I wrote before I checked my 23andMe again. I’m 58% European 31% Iberian I really don’t know what that all means still trying to figure it out. LOL sorry for the Miss info

  3. I like what you wrote you’re pretty funny. I did have also a 53% Iberian Peninsula I am Puerto Rican. And also sub-Saharan African came out 23%. And I’m 15% Native American. So I’m assuming those are all slave trades. I also have been rumored by Family been rumored to be part from Taino Indians as well. I have been unable to really figure out what all my 23andMe charts mean but you kind of help me understand it I’m still trying to figure it all out considering all I know is being from Puerto Rico and I don’t know the heritage of my father. Thanks again Darlene

  4. Funny “I’m white” lol. I have wanted to do a DNA test so may get this for me and my husband for Christmas. But truly I figure based on my background I prob know the results. I’m very proud of being Jamaican and can trace back a few generations including British, Chinese and Irish. I figure the African side is also West African-like you said, the slave trade 😉

    1. LOL yes exactly. Someone else emailed me about the same thing: hoping for something surprising but getting exactly what they expected.

      I knew my background but didn’t realize the breakdown would be this way. It feels kind of sad as well because I don’t know how to connect with those people — i have no contact or information since everyone is deceased and record keeping wasn’t so great. I thought the DNA test would connect me but it didn’t go that deep. I would’ve liked to connect with an unknown close family member to get answers.

      Ah well, the search continues!

  5. This is so awesome Olivia! I am definitely going to have to try this! I can only imagine your facial expression when you saw how "White" you are. LOL

    1. OMG my extra dramatic facial expressions have only intensified with age so it was definitely a funny sight to see. I definitely recommend you try it. The results could be all over the place!

  6. "im WHITE?" hahaha. That’s so cool! Must feel nice knowing a little more about where you’re from. Jon doesnt have relatives and his parents never knew where they were from–they assumed they were mutts. So we got the 23andme test a couple months and he’s… drumroll, 99.5% Ashkenazi Jew! A pure bred! We were surprised but then again, not really. Lol

    1. Haha! Yeah it was so weird and cool and shocking all at the same time. Also, holy Ashkenazi! 99.5%! I wonder if the holocaust has to do with the mystery? Ashkenazi Jewish people are from Eastern Europe, right? It is crazy how getting closure leads to SO MANY MORE QUESTIONS.

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